My friend, Chris

Stunned

Shocked

Plus hearing months after the fact.

What do I think and feel?

How do I even make sense of this?

This is so much.

Gone too soon!

We hadn’t had our coffee

For some months.

Yet you emailed

Looking forward to seeing me

After my trip.

As I celebrate another year of my life

With its ups and downs

I cannot know how you felt

And I should be grateful.

All I have are questions

And the finality of your death.

Was it a slow erosion

Or did something snap?

Were you too focussed on others’ burdens

That you didn’t see your own 

until it was too late? 

I also have compassion

For loved ones left behind.

Rest in peace, my friend,

As I try to find some, too.

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